Every relationship warrants its pump dispenser Suppliers up story. But here there are ways to break his heart while you mend yours:

· You suddenly despise him when he said you were the woman who loved him best in 40 years.

· You immediately act healthy and in control as if he never mattered. He should not really.

· You ‘command' he gives you everything you gave him (letters, love notes, pics and precious gifts); and since you cannot take back love making, pretend it never really touched you. You cannot take back your love? You can un-love.

· You are super nice to his friends and refrain from talking about him saying : ‘he is not worth the mention', or: ‘a fiasco he was; but I don't think I was true either', better still: ‘c'mon , a crush is a crush is a crush!'

· Never Ever fight over him with another woman - EVER! Just give him up to her. This is the surest way she will dump him.

· Never ever let him see your tears over him. Never even cry in private!

· Treat yourself the best way you can, from having a total make over to having fun.

· Celebrate the break-up by inviting mutual friends and strangers to a "Nest-Clearing" party; he was not living with you? Then, "Chest-cleaning" !

· He cheated on you? Pretend you are cheating on him without knowing what he was up to - a winner tactic!

· He will not marry you? Get engaged in one month (fake it until you make it) to someone brand new.

· He badmouthed you with his friends? Date one of them (without having sex), pretending not to have heard of the tresspass.

· He went out with your friend? Call her and confide your sexual fantasies about his best friend all the time he is sleeping with you. Ask for her advice without sounding suspicious of her. A few days later, leave him a note saying: " I have to leave you without hurting you".